You Are Already Living The Dream
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You're sitting with a cup of coffee, steam rising like the morning mist.
You're flipping through the pages of an old journal, and there it is—a list.
A list of hopes, of dreams, of somedays and hopefullys.
A list of dreams.
And as you read through each line, you come to a profound realization.
The job you once longed for, the peace of mind you prayed for, the relationships you hoped to cultivate—they're not just words on a page anymore.
They're your reality.
Whether you see or not, you're living a life that you once dreamed of.
The sooner you see this, the sooner you can break free from this relentless pursuit of “more”.
More at the cost of what you have today.
Here's where it gets tricky. We're wired to look forward, to chase the next big thing, and it's all too easy to forget the mountains we've climbed to stand where we do today.
Especially in this digital age where everyone seems to be doing way better than we are.
We adapt, we adjust, and the extraordinary becomes ordinary before we even notice it's happened.
Someone out there does it better and has it better, At least, that's what we tell ourselves. Therefore, we need to get more.
But we must pause and practice gratitude in our lives.
It isn't just a feel-good, “woo-woo” thing; it's an act of recognition, a way to ground ourselves in the now by honoring the journey it took to get here.
Think about it.
That cozy apartment, beautiful partner, career or business, it was all once a dream destination.
Those friends who have become like family, the ones who know exactly how you like your coffee and have been there through every plot twist—there was a time you hoped to find your people.
The job and salary you once thought was going to resolve all your money problems.
The person you love, waking up next to you.
And yet, here they are in your daily life, unnoticed.
You would've have been over the moon at the thought of even having a fraction of what you have today.
Give yourself some credit and allow yourself to sit back and enjoy the fruits of your labor
People will call this being complacent, but It's about pausing, even if just for a moment, to acknowledge that some of your dreams have already taken shape around you.
I'm not telling you to stop growing, but to balance out both sides.
It's not about settling down or stopping the pursuit of growth.
It's about celebrating the now, even as you build your future.
Because gratitude amplifies the beauty of the present; it transforms what we have into enough, and more.
Gratitude helps you become blissfully dissatisfied - it's okay to want more out of life and to grow but don't take what you have for granted because you'll look back to the good ol' days that are happening right now.
So, take a moment today. Look around you and feel the weight of your dreams-turned-reality in your hands.
Remember the nights you wished for what you now have.
Let that sink in. Let it fill you the sense of accomplishment that you deprived yourself of in pursuing the next big thing.
You should still shoot for the stars but let gratitude be the solid ground that holds you when things don’t seem to go your way - because it’s bound to happen and when it does, remember what you do have right now.
Your new dreams haven't materialized but your old ones have so things are not that bad, right?
In recognizing the value of your present, you're not only honouring your past self's dreams, but you're also fuelling the fire for the dreams yet to come.
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